I am a 45 year old sexy, confident, every day woman.  Loving, generous, and kind. Sarcastic, witty, and silly. As a successful businesswoman, a soccer mom, and a true nymphomaniac, discretion is very important to me! Our privacy and safety is my first priority. I value respect, honesty, and an authentic connection. I enjoy the company of mature and respectful people who are sincere and open to possibilities.

I am dynamic with many almost contrasting qualities - wholesome and sweet, sexy and sensual, playful and naughty. I balance professionalism and intuitive spontaneity.

Some of my favorite things to do include dancing, cooking, long walks, live music and theater... but it all comes second to our secret time together!  What I find sexy is intelligence, confidence, wit and humor. 

I have been called bisexual, pansexual, and polyamorous.  Whatever you call it, I find something beautiful and sexy in everyone!

I'm never bitchy or mean - which I think shouldn't have to be said, but apparently it does. I'm where you go when you want to remember that the world is a good place and full of good things...AND THAT YOU DESERVE IT!

I'm a normal person who wants more joy, satisfaction, and pleasure in my life, and I get all of that by taking you on the journey with me! I share my time with you because I love it, not because I 'have to' or I 'don't have anything better to do'.


My passion is to show you how much more delicious everything can be, and there are

endless ways to do that!

It all starts with good chemistry and compatibility...

I design and write my own website so you can get a sense of who I am and an idea of the depth of intimate experience I offer - in case you're looking for more than just tits and ass and a pouty duck face.


The last thing you need is to waste your time and money - I'm not afraid to tell you that I don't believe we are a good fit or that I'm not able to be my best for you.

My personal style is to appeal to your intellect, intuition, and desires. 

My goal is to add significant value to your life.

All you have to do is show up with an open mind and an eagerness for something new and amazing!

My first career was as a clinical massage therapist, which began about 20 years ago. I was very good then and I still am - which I incorporate into my intimate sessions somehow or another to leave you feeling better and thinking of me for days or weeks! Since then I pursued education and professionalism in business, psychology, counselling, and various health and wellness modalities.  I adapt to you - your experience, your needs, your wants and desires, and your personality and character!

I began my career as a professional companion at 40 years old because I've always pursued my passions (which are diverse and I've accomplished many different things!) I came into it with preconceptions, thinking I wasn't perfect enough or young enough or pretty enough, but deep down I knew there would be someone who wants to spend high quality time with a real, sincere, beautiful and sexy woman...AND I WAS RIGHT!

Want to know more?

  • follow me on twitter @christa_carlyle

  • log on to cafreviews.com

  • visit me and see for yourself!

If I pique your interest, we are going to have a fantastic time together ...it's really as simple as that! 


If you are confused or bored, or feel like I'm 'too expensive'

or like I'm already wasting your time... then keep looking until you find the right girl for you!


If you are someone who wants a mature, intelligent, wildly sensual connection that is classy and discreet, and you are curious about where our chemistry and desire will take us instead of being bound by a menu or script, then for goodness sakes contact me!

The Christa Carlyle Experience is intensely sensual professional companionship for 30+ who are looking for something different than a stereotype